How To Become Popular
Lots of guys want to be popular, lots of guys wants to be famous. That’s why they admire people who are already popular no matter if they are actors or singers or somebody else. But do you know how to become popular or do you just dream about it? So I will give you some advices and then you could become whoever you want to be: a singer, an actor, being rich…
Willing is not enough you must do. Knowledge is not enough you must apply.
If you want something but you don’t try to reach it then you just dream about it but dreaming is not enough. Yes, dreaming is also important because dreaming motivates you, gives you energy to do something to make your dreams come true. But dreaming without actions is not enough.
If you have knowledge what to do, how to reach your goals, if you have body and mind skills for reaching your goals what is it good enough if you don’t use your knowledge? Without doing something to make your dreams come true you will just dream…
You know, there are lots of people who want to be famous. For example there are lots of people in Hollywood who want to be a movie star. And lots of them have talent for being the movie star but how come they are not famous yet?
You must know yourself as much as you can. You must know what you really can do!
Have you seen American Idol? So you could see how much people thought that they really can sing. But the truth was absolutely different. Why did they thought they really sing perfectly? Because they didn’t know themselves well. We people are great at lying to myself. We think that we are great at singing, we could be a super movie star etc.
I think vs I Know
Do you know the difference between I think and I know? And there is really difference between them. It is not just illusion! When you think it is always about uncertainty but when you know it is always about facts: I can give you proof that I really sing amazingly, I can give you proof I know how to make a perfect movie etc.
Body and mind skills
No matter what you do, no matter what is your goal it is always about your body and mind skills.I will give some examples:
Singing- body skills:
You must know how to breath, yeah you know how to breath but do you know how to use your power of breathing for singing? Because breathing has amazing power…Do you know how to breath naturally what means you will be healthy or don’t you want to be healthy?
You must know something about body position, what body position can make your singing better and what not. Or you don’t want to sing better? Do you really think you don’t have to improve your singing? Do you really think that your singing is the best in the world?
You must know how do you create sounds and how you can improve that sounds because singing is about sound, isn’t it? So you must train your breathing, your lips, your tongue…
Singing- Mind Skills:
it is especially about self motivation and of course about knowledge of yourself. Then it is not important if somebody believes you or not because you know that you can do it!
You must know how to motivate yourself
If you don’t trust yourself, how can you think that other people will trust you? If you don’t like yourself how can you think that other people will like you? If you are not happy how can you think that other people will be happy with you what means you will be popular?…And all of this is about motivation. If you will give something up it is because you are not enough motivated because:
Where is a will there is a way
self motivation is about using your mind energy for doing something, for reaching your goals. If you don’t have this energy you will be failure, you will be a loser. And you don’t want to be a loser, do you? So how to motivate yourself?
Concentration+Relaxation+Imagination+Frequency
You must be as much as you can concentrated on what you want to reach.
When you are as much as you can relaxed then you have lots of energy for concentration and for reaching your goals.
Imagination is about using your internal senses: imagine how would you feel, what would you see, what would you hear if you reached your goals. And do it frequently but remember more important than how long you use imagination is how often you use your motivation.
You must know how you can reach your goals
And again it is about knowledge, about facts. You must know and not think that this way is really great to become a movie star, a singer…
I know it is not enough so if you have any questions just ask me…
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