What You Say vs What You Do

What You Say vs What You Really Do

Do you think there is no difference between what you say and what you really do? Really? So read this:

Women can’t live without love but can live without sex. Men can’t live without sex but can live without love. Women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex.

So man will tell a woman how is she amazing, pretty, how much is she so important to him and much more words but the truth is absolutely different. He just only want one thing…

And read this:

Have you ever been on dating site? And how did you choose who to write to? Because the person in the picture lookes so amazing? Women are more smarter in this case than men. Yeah, they also have a look at someone’s dating picture but also and it is very important to them they also read what is written in the profile. Because they know that picture is not enough. You know, picture can be fake, it is really easy to upload a picture of somebody else, I can be Michael Jackson, Mel Gibson but also I can be Madonna, Britney Spears… But when I read what you wrote in your profile I can find out more information about you information that you didn’t write…

Because there is really a difference between what people say and what they really do it is necessary to get to know the truth. Very important is what is hidden because then people can promise you lots of things, they can tell you lots of words but you will know if they are really serious or not. Very important is nonverbal communication:

Nonverbal Communication

is communication without words, even if you you are not speaking you permanently send lots of information about you. So you can tell me how much you love me, how much I am important to you or you never lies, you always keep your word, you can write me that you look for somebody serious, you don’t want to play any games but nonverbal signals you are sending will tell me if it is really true or not.

Nonverbal Communication in Words: Lots of people are concentrated on  what people say but much more important is what words people use, when they use that words and what intonation they use.

Body-Nonverbal Communication: your body is a mirror of your real thoughts, emotions and feelings. You can say that you are ok but your body says that you are unhappy…

Things-Nonverbal Communication: Things talk even if you don’t know about it. Your car, your shoes you wear, your apartment say lots of about you. Your car can say if you are rich or poor, if your car is life or not, if you like order or not…

So now you really know that there is really a difference between what people say and what people do. And now you know how to get to know if somebody lies to you or not. But do you know why people lie to you? First because they want to protect themselves, they don’t want to be hurt, to be misused. And second because they want to hurt you, they want to misuse you.

I don’t judge people who lies to me, I am not angry at them, I don’t hate them. I always try to understand them. And if can help them even if they lied to me. Do you think it is good or bad…?

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