To Lie Or To Tell The Truth?
You can sometime hear a lie is not as bad as they claim. Someone believes you must say just truth and nothing more, someone believes from time to time you can lie to people to help them. I emphasize to help people and not to hurt them or to manipulate them! My opinion is: a lie is not bad it can be the right thing you can do it depends where, when, how and why you use it. Lots of people think about truth that is the right thing to do. But it’s not always true. You know, the truth can hurt people. You must know where, when, how and why to tell the truth.
You don’t have to lie to be kind, to take care of someone’s emotions. You can tell the truth and hurt nobody at the same time. The key is how. How to tell the truth and hurt nobody. Of course if you don’t care about people if you hurt them so it’s OK there is any problem. But lots of people don’t want to hurt people but they don’t know how to tell unpleasant truth.
So how can you tell the truth that is not ok with someone? As I have told you you must know where and when to lie or to tell the thruth. You must know what could happen if you tell the truth or if you lie. You must listen to your heart and your reason. It is fight between IQ and EQ. You must realize it’s all about questions = how, why, where and when.
A word IQ knows everyone, it means intelligence quotient. EQ means emotional quotient. By the way, EQ is much important than IQ… But more about it you can find on the net. But because I am an extraordinary man I use terms IQ and EQ in my own way. IQ+EQ are mind skills, abbilities. IQ is about your reason, EQ is about your emotions. Somebody call that reason vs heart i use IQ vs EQ.
So if you must decide if you say the truth or if you lie you must use harmony between IQ and EQ, between your reason and heart. And now they are coming questions.
Where and when is about place and time where you say something. You know, you can’t say everything everywhere. For example you can’t say i would like to fuck in funeral or to say in a church God is an idiot… Why and what is about IQ and EQ. Will you make u IQ desicion or EQ desicion? Will you tell somobody the truth because you feel it’s right, because you love the man(EQ) or you won’t say to your wife the truth because if you did it then you wouldn’t get what you want from her(IQ)
So train how to make the right decision and you and people around you will be happy…
