Jsem Blbeček?

 

To, co teď napíšu, potvrzuje to, co o sobě rozhlašuju a to, že: “I am ready to share my thoughts, feelings and emotions with you”, a to dokáže jen člověk, co se nebojí otevřít své srdce, protože je natolik silný, že každé zranění svého srdce překoná. Také to dokazuje, že “I try as much as I can to understand your thoughts, feelings and emotions.” Ne předstírat, ale skutečně to dělat. Ne má slova, ale mé činy jsou důkazem. Protože to, co člověk říká a co pak skutečně dělá, je hodně odlišné…

JSEM BLBEČEK?

Někdo by možná řekl, že blázen jsem,
ale já radši bláznem budu a strachovat se o tebe budu.

Někdo by řekl, blbečku, proč to děláš, vždyť jí neznáš?
Ale to je jen důkaz, co za člověka jsem Já.

Někdo by řekl, kašli na ní, stejně o Tebe zájem nemá.
Není ale i starost o takového člověka,
projevem, jaké srdce skutečně mám?

Vždyť dělat něco jen pro to, že z toho něco mám, je vypočítavost.
Má starost je ale upřímná, bezpodmínečná, znamená to, že jsem hlupák?

Někdo by řekl, o co jde, Sandy má jen teplotu, to je normální
ale když ti na někom záleží, je každý pocit, myšlenka, emoce druhého pro tebe to nejdůlažitejší.

Když ti na někom záleží, tak každá její/jeho radost je tvoje radost
každé jeho/její trapení a bolest je tvoje trápení a bolest.
A je jedno jestli je to tvoje holka, bratr či sestra,
je to vše o jednom, je to bezpodmínečná láska.

A je to tím horší či lepší, jak moc se dokážeš do člověka vcítit.
Teď je Sandy nemocná a mně to v srdci vážně bolí,
protože je to jako bych byl v její kůži… (

Ano, bolí mně to moc a mám o Sandy strach a to dost,
bohužel, je to to jediné, co udělat můžu a to klepat se o ní strachy.

Mám na to bohužel jen jediný lék, který můžu dostat
a tím lékem je Sandy, Sandy která je opravdu zdravá.

Někdo si řekne 39 stupnů je normální teplota
má zkušenost je jiná, o to ale nejde,
jde o to, že když ti na někom záleží, tak vše je důležité…

Ulevil jsem si papíru, ale bolest nepřešla, strach o Sandy tu je,
ale aspon jí to ukáže, kdo skutečně je její přítel.

Vypsal jsem co v srdci mém bylo
a chudák mozek zase cenzurovat nemohl.

Uvidíme, jestli dneska usnu, jestli dokážu usnout,
protože strach o milou Sandy,
mi asi nedovolí zavřít oči…
Kdo si tohle přečte si může myslet: to je ale blbeček.
Radši ale budu blbečkem, než člověkem bez srdce.

Radši si budu ubližovat strachem o někoho na kom mi záleží,
než myslet jen na sebe a nevšímat si bolestí a nemocí druhých.

Radší se zeptám, jak se máš, jak se vede?
I když vím, že mně za to někdo může bodnout do srdce.

Zeptám se jak se vede i člověka,
který se mně na to nikdy nezeptá.

Jestli jsem proto blbeček či blázen?
Možná, ale já to s velkou radostí přijímám.

Bezpodmínečná starost či láska není o tom co dostaneš,
ale co pro druhého uděláš a jak se o nej zajímáš.

Ano, možná jsem blbeček, protože spousta lidí myslí jen na sebe,
spousta lidí se tě nezeptá jak se vede, co děláš?
Spousta lidí nechce vědět jaké máš zájmy či jak myslíš a cítíš,
ale když ty jim nasloucháš tak jsi oblíbený…

Ano možná jsem blbeček, blbeček ale s laskavým srdcem
a to je mnohem lepší, než člověk se srcem s kamene.

Je mi jedno, že se o mne nikdo nezajímá, nechce mně poznat,
chce se mi jen každý vypovídat.
Protože takový prostě jsem já a jestli to znamená, že jsem blbeček
pak ano, jsem ale štastný a spokojený se sebou
a to dokáže říct jen málokdo…

Vše, co jsem teď napsal, ale i komunikace s tebou, potvrzuje, že: “I’m always smiling, open minded, sincere, loving fun, helpful and sensitive.” Jen si představ, když mám o Tebe takový strach, starost, a to přesto, že Tě neznám, co bych asi dokázal kdybych Tě znal….???

Friendship, Relationship and Investment

WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP
They are lots of theories of what friendship is and what is friendship about. Psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists and philosophers have different theories about this topic. Of course, what guys think about friendship depends a lot where the guys are from. The friendship can have different meanings for guys living in Europe, Asia, Australia, America or Africa…

They’re also lots of words for describing types of friendship:
Pen pal: people who have a relationship via postal correspondence. Now pen pals has been established into internet friendship with the use of chat or social networking sites. They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintance between each other.

Internet friendship: a form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet. Some internet friendships evolve into real life friendships. Internet friendships are in similar context to a pen pal.
Imaginary friend: a non-physical friend created by a child or some person who has some mental or social illness, such as schizophrenia. Imaginary friends are also created for people in desperate of social interaction but is isolated from contact with humans and pets.

Cross-sex friendship: is one that is defined by a person having a friend of the opposite sex with having little or no sexual or romantic activity: a male who has a female friend, or a female who has a male friend. Historically cross-sex friendships have been rare. This is caused by the fact that often men would labor in order to support themselves and their family, while women stayed at home and took care of the housework and children. The lack of contact led to men forming friendships exclusively with their colleagues, and women forming friendships with other stay at home mothers. However, as women attended schools more and as their presence in the workplace increased, the segregated friendship dynamic was altered, and cross-sex friendships began to increase. Cross sex friendships has once been a sign of gender deviance, but now it has been loosened because of the increase of gender equality in schools and the workplace, along with certain interests and pastimes such as sports.

Best friend (or close friend): a person(s) with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.

BFF (“Best Friend Forever”): slang used primarily in the USA by teenage and young adult women to describe a girl friend or close best friend.

Blood brother or blood sister: may refer to people related by birth, or a circle of friends who swear loyalty by mingling the blood of each member together.

Bro: In the USA, common term for best friends among men, oftentimes in high school, college or early adulthood. This term is also common in New Zealand.

Buddy: In the USA, males and sometimes females often refer to each other as “buddies”, for example, introducing a male friend as their “buddy”, or a circle of male friends as “buddies”. Buddies are also acquaintances that you have during certain events. They could also be referred to as internet contacts, such as the AOL Buddy List.

Casual relationship or “Friends with benefits”: the sexual or near-sexual and emotional relationship between two people who don’t expect or demand to share a formal romantic relationship. This is also referred to an open relationship or a “hook-up”.
Friendship is= strong interpersonal ties between two or more people.In terms of interpersonal relationships, there are two distinct types of love:Platonic love: is a deep and non-romantic connection or friendship between two individuals. It is love where the sexual element does not enter.

WHAT IS A REAL FRIEND
Anyone can stand by you when you are right,
But a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong.
A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn’t have to.
A simple friend opens a conversation With a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, “What’s new with you?”
A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says, “You’ve been whining about the same thing for 14 years.Get off your duff and do something about it.”
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn’t know your parents’ first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over When you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it’s not a friendship until after You’ve had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
Real friends listen to each other and give good advice.
Real friends will keep promises they make to you.
Real friends will always tell you the truth.
Real friends will laugh “with” you and not “at you” when you make a fool of yourself.
Real friends will go out of their way to help each other and do nice things for each other and never expect anything in return.
Real friends forgive each other and never stay angry.
Real friends quickly forget whatever was wrong.
Real friends never say anything bad about each other.
Real friends encourage each other and help each other obtain their goals.
Real friends are never jealous of each other.
Real friends always praise each other for their accomplishments because real friends are happy to see others succeed.
Real friends will believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself or when no one else believes in you.
Now don’t get me wrong, it’s good to have simple friends, as they are fun and offer another network of people to socialise with. But you can’t bet real friends, you know the ones you wear trackies around, go to a movie when you are feeling down or just hang out and talk about stuff.

QUANTITY VS QUALITY
This absolutely true: real friends are never enough!

How many friends do you have? How many friends do you have on Myspace, Facebook or Twitter? How many of those friends do really know your secrets, your intimate thoughts, ideas, emotions or feelings? How many of those friends do you really know? Do you really know their top secret ideas, plans or feelings?

It’s not bad to be friendly and have lots of simple friends. But your goal should be to find real friends among them. Because only real friends will help you when you have problems, when you are miserable. Simple friends will leave you…

Basicallly, real friendship(close friendship) is about knowing someone’s privacy and about letting other guys know your privacy. It’s about accepting the way your friend think and feel, it’s about accepting what he or she is. And of course, don’t pretend to be someone’s friend…

WHAT IS SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
Serious relationship is friendship plus sex…

Basically, serious relationship is about knowing someone’s privacy and about letting other guys know your privacy. It’s about accepting the way your boyfriend/girlfriend thinks and feels, it’s about accepting what he/she is. Let his/her be himself/herself. Just love your boyfriend/girlfriend as you love yourself…

Having a serious relationship is about finding a soulmate, alter ego, companion, confidante, helpmate, kindred soul, kindred spirit, lover, one’s promised, partner, true love.

By a “serious relationship”, one is usually relating to a relationship between a guy and a gal or a man and a woman. When we say that one’s relationship or bond is tremendously serious, we mean that they intensely love each other and that they have developed an exceptionally strong understanding among themselves. In serious relationships, one can notice that one partner or the other is so mad after their relationship that they can literally do anything or say anything to save their relationship. They can die for each other!

WHAT IS A SOULMATE
Many theories exist as to what is a soulmate…. Finding true, soulful love is not a destination, its a journey. A real and lasting relationship with a spiritual soul mate requires inner work and outer preparation. A soulmate is the twin to your soul. It is your perfect partner, one whom you feel a deeper connection to than anyone else. You can also call it true love. Some people have different beliefs about a soulmate. Some people believe that a soulmate is a lover from a previous life. Others think that a soulmate is a piece of your soul that was palced within another person. That is why you spend your life looking for the other half. Whatever you happen to believe, a soulmate is more than just simple physical attraction. It goes deep and can make you more complete than any crush or infatuation.

Chances are there is more than one soulmate out there for you. You are attracted to different people for different reasons and the odds are there is going to be several people who share the same traits as you. These people you will feel closer to. So don’t worry that you have never found (or even lost) your one soulmate. There are many people that might fit the bill.

Is that person you met last night your soulmate? You both connected so well and you feel comfortable with them so they could be, right? But how do you know? Well, that is the real trick. You don’t know. It could take years before you find out if someone is your soulmate or not. This is why so many people who are obsessed with finding their soulmate miss out on opportunities. They think there will be a lightning bolt that comes down to point their true love out to them. If they don’t get that jolt of instant love that is so popular in movies and romance novels, then they keep looking. By doing this, they could actually miss out on a meaningful relationship. They might even miss their soulmate. So you can never really tell.

Even though there is not a flashing neon sign pointing out your soulmate, there are some clues and indicators that the person you are interested in may be the one you are looking for. One good indicator is whether you like the same things. Similar interests are good clues that a person is your soulmate. This doesn’t mean that if you both like pizza then you are soulmates. Almost everyone likes pizza. But if both of you like the same odd things, such as broccoli and anchovies pizza (hey, its just an example) then that is a big indicator that you are both compatible.

Many times when you first meet someone you are interested in, you may feel nervous and have trouble acting like yourself when they are around. If you are with your soulmate, you may not feel nervous at all. It may feel very comfortable or almost familiar. You may find that you don’t have to act a certain way to impress them. Many people who claim they have found their soulmate say that they never once felt nervous or awkward in the other’s presence. It was as if they had been together for a lot longer.

Do You Feel You Could Tell Them Your Deepest Secrets? Trust is always an issue in any relationship. You may love someone but you might not be able to trust them with everything. You might feel that you have to keep secrets from them. If you should ever be so lucky as to find a soulmate, you will find that you feel as if you can tell them anything. All of your hopes, dreams, and even your deepest secrets should find a safe haven with a soulmate. If you can have complete trust of the person that you are with, then they are a good candidate for your true love.

How do you find your soulmate? It can be like the hunt for the holy grail. You can keep searching and searching and never find it. But have you ever heard the expression that when you are actively looking for love you never find it but when you are not looking for love, that is when it finds you. Sometimes finding your soulmate is like that. Sure, you can go out to the clubs and social events and go through candidates like a line at the buffet. But you can’t force it to happen. Yet at the same time, you can’t be a shut-in who is waiting for fate to do all the work. If you never go out to meet people, you will never meet your true love. Don’t sit around being lonely and waiting to be rescued by your true love. To find your soulmate, you need to be happy on your own. If you are desparate, then it is too easy to mistake infatuation for true love. So you have to get out there and meet people but don’t scrutinize each and every person trying to find that perfect match. It is better to just relax, have fun, and take joy from the people that you do meet. Sooner or later, your soulmate may come along.

INVESTMENT IN FRIENDSHIP AND SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
Everytime when you want something, you must invest something in it. There’s no exception. Do you want to have friends? Do you want to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend? Do you want to be happy almost 24/7? Do you want to be rich and famous? So you must do something for it. You can’t just wait when somebody will give you what you want or need. You must do as much as you can to reach your goals. No excuses… You must want to die to reach your goals…You always must invest something to reach you goals.

There are golden rules :
you want something=you have to give something.
You give something= you get something

What you have to invest to have real friends or serious relationship:

1. Your time
2. Your money
3. body and mental energy

Time is not just money. Time is and this is very important life! So you must realize who really deserves your time, who deserves your life. And remember when you say I don’t have time it means that you don’t want to have time(something or somebody is not important to you) or you can’t have time(something or somebody is very important to you but you don’t have time for them because of your bad time management, because you dont know how to control your time.)

Don’t ignore body and mental energy. Don’t let anybody make you be tired because of useless goals or someone’s wishes. Remember, when you don’t have enough body and mental energy you have to take a break. And then you are losing your time=your life…

How many to invest
How much time, how many money, how much body and mental energy should you invest in your real friends and your boyfriend/girlfriend? Hey this is absolutely wrong question. Not quantity but quality is what is important…

Please, think: isn’t better to have no real friends? Isn’t betterto have no boyfriend/girlfriend? If so, why not? Do you know reasons? You must KNOW the reasons and not just THINK you know them…

How To Communicate with a Non Native English Speaker

Not all non-native speakers have trouble communicating in English. Many speak at a native level, but many do not. The ability to communicate with people who speak a limited amount of English is actually a skill that can be developed over time with practice. Whether you deal with non-native English speakers often or rarely, this advice will help you to communicate more effectively and smoothly.

Step 1

Speak clearly and pronounce your words correctly. Exaggerated pronunciations will not help your listener and may cause more confusion. However, you may find that it helps to pronounce some words as the non-native speaker does. This will be especially true if the proper pronunciation is very different from the non-native pronunciation.

Step 2

Recognize that people wrongly think that turning up the volume somehow creates instant understanding. Avoid this common mistake (however, do not speak too quietly).

Step 3

Do not cover or hide your mouth because listeners will want to watch you as you pronounce your words. This helps them figure out what you are saying in many cases.

Step 4

Do not use baby talk or incorrect English. This does not make you easier to understand. It will confuse your listener and may give the wrong impression about your own level of competence.

Step 5

Avoid running words together ( Do-ya wanna eat-a-pizza?). One of the biggest challenges for listeners is knowing where one word ends and the next one begins. Give them a small pause between words if they seem to be struggling.

Step 6

When possible, opt for simple words instead of ones that are complex. The more basic a word is, the better the chance is that it will be understood. (“Big” is a better choice than “enormous” for example. “Make” is a better choice than “manufacture.”) However, with a Romance language speaker (i.e. Spanish, French, Italian, Portuguese, Romanian), these ‘complex’ words can be useful as they are rooted in Latin.

Step 7

Avoid verb phrases that sound very similar to non-native English speaker. “Look out” sounds very close to “look for.” Both are similar to “look out for.” Many times you can use another word in these cases. (Example: look out = be careful, look for = search for, look out for = watch for).

Step 8

As much as possible, avoid using filler and colloquialisms (‘um…’, ‘like…’,'Yeah, totally.’) as non-native speakers, especially ones of lower proficiency levels, may get hung up on these thinking the filler language is vocabulary that they don’t possess. Colloquialisms are likely to be unknown as well, especially if they are not easy to find in the dictionary.

Step 9

If asked to repeat something, first repeat it as you said it the first time. Then again. It could be that they simply didn’t hear you. If your listener still doesn’t understand, however, change a few key words in the sentence. It may be that they couldn’t understand one or two of the words. Also repeat the whole sentence and not just the last couple of words. It’s time consuming, but it helps prevent confusion.

Step 10

Consider the fact that your dialect may not be what the other person has learned in school. For example, most non-Americans expect the second t in the word “twenty” to be pronounced.

Step 11

Paraphrase. if you happen to know a similar word to the word you are searching for then use it. As your knowledge of the foreign language builds this becomes even easier.

Step 12

Avoid using contractions or short forms. Use long forms. “Can’t” is one word you must use the long form with. It is difficult for a non-native speaker to understand the difference between “can” and “can’t” in a sentence. For example, “I can’t take you on Friday” and “I can take you on Friday”. Use the long form, “cannot”. “I cannot take you on Friday”.

Step 13

Decrease the use of words that fill your sentences. The idea is to remove the “noise” from your speech. Imagine trying to listen to the radio with two young children in the same room. They are playing and screaming. What is the result? “Family of…car…on vacation…in Arizona.” If your oral communication is filled with “um”, “like”, “you know”, or other fillers, comprehension is more difficult. “Right” is a word that commonly fills conversations. I prefer to use “Yes, that is correct”. A non-native speaker may not understand “right” and confuse it with its opposite, “left”.

Step 14

Be explicit: Say “Yes” or “No”. Do not say: “Uh-huh” or “Uh-uh”. Those words are not in grammar books!

Step 15

Be patient and smile. The more relaxed you are, the more you are in control of your communication. Do not give a busy lifestyle or a meeting agenda permission to control your speech. Think as you speak and do not speak as you think.

Tips

• If you are having problems with verbal communication, try drawing an object on paper.
• If the other person did not understand what you said repeat it as you said it the first time
• If you have failed with a sentence, reflect on that sentence (did you unconsciously use a distracting metaphor, a colloquialism, conjunctions?). Try again with a new, simpler sentence free of complex language.
• Keep a good attitude and be friendly. Impatience will inhibit your ability to communicate and can alienate your listener.
• Making Requests: Even though you might be tempted to speak politely with indirect questions (ie. Would it be possible to..? I was wondering if you could..? If you wouldn’t mind terribly to..? etc.), it is best to avoid as many unnecessary collocations as possible. A simple “can you X or Is it Y – followed with a universal “please” and “thank you” should do the trick.
• There is a nuance to not using big words: when speaking to a person who speaks a Western European language, the big words in English are more likely to be words that already exist in that person’s language, so sometimes you might have more luck with the big words than the small ones.
• Speak a little slower than normal. It takes more time to parse a foreign language; give your listener that time. This goes along with being patient and articulating clearly.
• Make many more gestures than normal when speaking. Often it’s possible to understand just by catching a couple of words and seeing the gestures.
• Write things down. It’s sometimes easier to understand written language than spoken language.
• Get used to not understanding everything. Take guesses at what someone said in another language, unless it’s important that you understand the details, e.g. buying a train ticket, doctors office, etc. For most daily situations, you can just guess, and the situation will work out. Of course some misunderstandings will result, but accept it and move on.
• If the person is new to English, keep in mind that on a certain level he will be “translating” his language to yours. His English words and expressions are influenced by his mother tongue, so things that might sound impolite to you are not always meant in that way. For example, a plain “No” might seem too blunt, whereas “I don’t agree,” if said politely, keeps open the door of communication. Try to listen “between the lines” before judging the other speaker’s attitude.
• If you are still unable to communicate by any other means, try speaking even – more – slowly and even more distinctly to your listener (especially if you know you tend to mumble).
• Pocket electronic translators are the size of a calculator, can cost under $20 (check [1] and Sort low to high price), and translate common words and phrases. You can type in English, they can type in their language (with some challenge, since it’s an English keyboard). Printed pocket sized two-language dictionaries are inexpensive.
• If all else fails, try finding another language that you are both comfortable with. For example, if the person you are speaking to is German, but is more fluent in French than in English (and your French is better than your German), you might have more success.

Warnings

• Don’t agree to anything unless you are certain that you have communicated effectively. This could potentially be a serious issue. For example, if someone is asking which way to the hospital, you don’t want to give them the wrong information.
• Sometimes good communication means knowing when your skills are inadequate for a situation that demands precise communication. In these cases you will want a translator. For example, you wouldn’t want to inadvertantly send someone to wait in the wrong 3-hour line in a government office.
• Avoid touching listeners from some cultures. Even if you want to nudge them in the right direction or encourage them with a friendly pat on the back, your gesture may be misinterpreted. Many cultures view personal contact very differently and your friendly touch could be seen as aggressive or overly familiar.
• Unless you have been asked otherwise, avoid the temptation to correct your listener. Taking time to make corrections is useful if they have come to you asking for your help with their language skills, but otherwise it will slow down your communication and may cause your listener to feel self-conscious. Correction may also create a “teacher-student” relationship between you and the non-native speaker.
• If you have a very heavy accent yourself (or one they are unfamiliar with) write the word down. Many non-English speakers actually have very good vocabulary and grammar basics, but the different accent can make things harder to understand.
• When there are words that sound the same but are spelled differently, write the word down to avoid confusion: ‘bear’ and ‘bare’ for example. If those two words are pronounced slightly differently in your accent, mention this.
• When it comes to words that mean different things across different contexts, use a different word. Use ‘final’ and ‘previous’ instead of ‘last’, which can mean both. And explain the context of other people’s usage of ‘last’ only when he/she can’t work it out.

originated by: Invidia Cinelli, Bex, Jack Herrick, Krystle C.

 

Islam=Terrorism?

WHAT IS ISLAM?

Islam is the fastest growing world religion, with over one billion followers worldwide. So this religion is not jusT an Arabic religion as lots of non-muslims think… Islam was founded in the sixth century by Muhammad, who is viewed as the major prophet and messenger of Islam.

WHAT REALLY IS ISLAM?

What does Islam Really Say about Killing the Innocent?  Who Speaks For Islam?  What a Billion Muslims Really Think? What Do You Really Know About Islam? What Muslims really know about other religions and other cultures? We could ask lots of question to get to know the Islam but is it really possible to find out the naked truth about Islam?

1. WHO TEACHES ISLAM

Who read the Bible knows that is not easy to understand it. On the contrary, it is very hard to understand what is really the Bible about and that’s why we need someone who can teaches us what is really the Bible about. But what if the person who teaches us something about the Bible also doesn’t understand the Bible, what if the person teaches us nonsense, fictions or even lies?

2.TRANSLATION

This is very important to get to know the truth about Islam. It is not just about translating from Arabic into other languages but also about translating from old Arabic into present Arabic. And if someone translate the Qur’an incorrectly then we believe in incorrect Islam… It is also about the Qur’an, if we don’t have the original Qur’an written in old Arabic how can we know if the translated Qur’an is about real Islam and not about fictional Islam?

3.ORIGINAL QUR’AN

The original Qur’an is the first holy book about Islam. But is there any? If not how can we know which version of Islam is real and which one is fake?

WHAT IS QUR’AN

The Qur’an has the same meaning for Muslims as the Bible for Christians. The Qur’an teaches about Islam. The Qur’an is the holy book of Islam.

WHAT IS ISLAM GOOD FOR?

What is Christianity good for? What is Buddhismus good for? What is fate good for? If you answer these questions then you know what’s Islam good for… Basically, fate is about hope… Everyone believes in something or in somebody even atheists are believers=they believe that God doesn’t exist.

WHO IS A MUSLIM?

A  muslim is a man whose faith is Islam, who believes in Allah.

One billion people from a vast range of races, nationalities and cultures across the globe – from the southern Philippines to Nigeria – are united by their common Islamic faith. About 18% live in the Arab world; the world’s largest Muslim community is in Indonesia; substantial parts of Asia and most of Africa are Muslim, while significant minorities are to be found in the Soviet Union, China, North and South America, and Europe. So now you know that muslims are not just Arabics but also Americans, Europeans, Australians, Africans. Islam is not just an Arabic religion but global such as Christianity, Judaims or Buddhism…

ARE MOST MUSLIMS REALLY TERRORISTS?

Maybe yes, maybe not. I can’t tell if for sure because I don’t have facts. But we should ask these questions: is Islam really about terrorism? Do we really have any proof for it? If all muslims are the same how come there was a woman who was  murdered because she wanted freedom in her country(she was muslim), how come her friends muslims let her protests again Iran government? Isn’t it proof that there are several versions of Islam?

http://boingboing.net/2009/06/21/iran-neda-warning-gr.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Neda_Agha-Soltan

GOD BLESS NEDA! FREEDOM!

WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT MUSLIM TERRORIST?

Before answering this question THINK. But really THINK don’t answer automatically. Use your brain and not your ass, ok?

And now I will tell you my opinions about this:

1. What is our goal(s)?

Is it our goal to have a war against Islam or against terrorists who misuse Islam? Is it our goal to be  Islamophobes?  Or is it our goal to stop Islamic terrorism or to have a war that will never end? Is it our goal prevention before lslamic terrorists or fights with all muslims because all muslims are terrorists like some Americans wrote me …

2. What could happen if…

What could or better saying what will happen if we will have a war against Islam? Remember, muslims are not just in Arabic countries but also in the USA, Canada, Great Britain and so on. And muslims in these countries won’t tolerate that muslims abroad are killed just because somebody think that all muslims are terrorists. Some American also wrote me that we should annihilate all Muslims. But they forgot that there are lots of Muslims living in America. Ha ha, stupid guys… What will happen if we become Islamophobes ? Just try to predict what could happen if you get what you want because when it happens it could be too late to change it or to stop it. Arabic countries also have atomic bombs…

3.Understanding

This is a gold rule. Before judging we should try as much as we can to understand why radical Muslims do what they do. Why to try to understand them? Beause we don’t wanna be Islamophobes and because violence against radical Muslims is not enough. We can’t stop radical muslims, we can’t neutralize radical Muslims just by using violence… We must understand why lots of terrorists are muslims and not Christians. And why some  non-radical Muslims support Islamic terrorism, is it because they are low educated? Is it because they know somebody who has bad experince(s) with the USA? And why lots of attacks of Islamic terrorist are against the USA? Why don’t they attack Canada or Australia?

WHICH FATE IS TRUE?

Islam, Buddhismus, Christianity or another religion? No one can’t say for sure which religion is true and which not. This is the reason why we call if fate. All what we can do is just to think, to believe that our fate is true because we don’t know for sure which religion is true, we have no proof which religion is true … If your fate doesn’t hurt anybody then it’s ok. Then you can believe in Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs and it’s gonna be ok.

CHRISTIANITY VS ISLAM

Why christianity vs Islam? Why not Islam vs Judaism or Buddhists? I don’t know… I don’t know why Islamic terrorists attacks Christians countries and not Buddhists ones. Maybe because Americans are mostly Christians…

1. FIND SOME INFORMATION ABOUT CHRISTIANITY

2.FIND SOME INFORMATION ABOUT ISLAM

=About ther past, presence and future. What they were like in the past, what  they are like these day and try to predict what they will be like for example in 5 years. You will find out that Christians were not always saint. Inquisition or crusades were in the name of Jesus. These days Christians are also not saint, do you know Priests who are pedophiles? Islam has Jihad and Christians had Hole War. So what’s the difference between Islam and Christianity? Christianity has changed for the better… Isn’t could happen the same to Islam too? What if Christians will return back to their bad history and they will have again a Holy War against Muslims?

I KNOW VS I THINK=FACTS VS LIES

WHAT IS YOUR GOAL(S) AND WHY=WAR AGAINST ISLAM, PREVENTION OR WHAT?

Those are gold rules. Before you decide what to do about Islamic terrorists use this rules, ok?

DONT LET ISLAMIC TERRORISTS TO HATE EACH OTHER. LET LOVE IS AMONG CHRISTIANS AND MUSLIMS. PEACE AND LOVE!

I love Muslims, I love Christians, I love Jeweshes, I love Atheists. Can’t you do the same like I? Or are you full of hateness, are you intolerant? Are you an Islamophobe?

What do you think about me? Am I a Christian, a Muslim?

http://www.loonwatch.com/2010/01/not-all-terrorists-are-muslims/

http://www.truthnet.org/islam/whatisislam.html

How to Do a Language Exchange

Language exchange is about teaching somebody your native language and in return, the guy will teach you its native language.

What to Learn/Teach

Written language=writing and speaking

Spoken language=listening and speaking

Grammar/Vocabulary

How to Do a Language Exchange

Face to face

Snail Mail

Via Email

Text chatting

Voice Chatting

Video chatting

When it comes to use the Internet for a language exchange you can use software such as Skype or Yahoo messenger or you can use web based chatting. What you will choose depends entirely up to you.

Fluency

The main goal is fluency. Remember that you don’t have to know many complex grammatical structures to achieve that goal! First of all try to speak as fluent as possible (even making some grammar mistakes). Then, after making your speaking fluent, you can focus on grammar aspects.

Remember:

Make corrections in a polite way. You don’t want to put the person down for making a mistake. You can’t improve a language without making mistakes! Remember to speak slowly enough so that they can understand. Increase your speed as your partner improves their listening skills. Ask your partner to slow down if you need to – don’t be afraid! You’re both here to learn. Most important: Have fun!

Here you can find more tips on how to do a language exchange

http://www.mylanguageexchange.com/HowTo.asp

Google these words:

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REAL CELEBRITY PROFILES

WHAT KIND OF PROFILES DO CELEBRITIES HAVE?
1.Private: just for close friends and a family
2.For fans: by their management/by celebrities

Usually celebrities, who use MySpace, Facebook, Twitter or other sites, use them for promoting themselves. They post news about their latest albums, movies, releases, song downloads, screen savers, and more on their profiles. Some celebrities make no qualms about using MySpace as a savvy marketing and promotional tool. However, many celebrities actually set up their profiles themselves, read their messages, and respond to fans directly. But it’s not easy to find those profiles when there are lots of posers and almost no celebrity proving its identity…

WHY DO YOU WANNA BE IN A CONTACT WITH A CELEBRITY?
What reasons do you have to be in contact with a celebrity? Because you wanna date it? Because you wanna learn something from it? Because you wanna take advantage of it? Because you wanna be a real friend of it? No matter what reasons you have what really matters is WHY? Why do you wanna date a celebrity? Why do you wanna take advantage of a celebrity? And are your reasons based on facts or on just your fantasies?

WHY FAN SITES ARE NOT ENOUGH?
Because you wanna be in contact with a celebrity and not with it’s fans. But why? Usually because you love the celebrity and you wanna date it or you wanna be a real friend of the one. And it can’t happen when you are in contact with just its fans.

WHAT CAN YOU OFFER THEM?
What is so special about you so a celebrity would decide to be in contact with you? There are lots of fans so why the celebrity should choose you? Remember, you must KNOW for sure and not just to THINK what you can offer the celebrity but you must also know how to sell your qualities,how to impress the celebrity.This is what celebrities did before they became famous.

WHAT CELEBRITIES CAN OFFER YOU?
Do you really KNOW for sure what celebrities can offer you? You know, what celebrities say is not always true. What celebrities do is not always true. Or do you really think when they say everybody ‘I love you’ they really love everybody? Don’t be a slave of your fantasies…

WHY SOMEBODY PRETENDS TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE?
1.Scammers=they just want your money but they won’t give you anything for your money
2.Spammers=they just want to sell you something. It is just normal business…
3.Posers=common guys pretending to be a celebrity. Don’t they have their own life? Or are they too shy to show their real faces?

WHY SHOULD CELEBRITIES PROVE THEIR IDENTITY?
Do they really need it? Of course not. There are lots of celebrities who don’t have official site like Elisha Cuthbert just to name some of them. And in spite of it she is popular… Of course celebrities are popular because their fans made internet sites about them and also posers make celebrities popular too. And that’s why celebrities don’t need to have official sites. On the other hand, when they have official sites, especially when celebrities communicate with their fans directly, it shows that they’re really interested in their fans. Or not?

IT’S ALL ABOUT FATE
Browsing celebrity profiles you can read words like these: I”m the real so don’t posing me , I hate posers, If u don’t believe me so why u add me ? Simple don’t believe so delete me… But words are just words. You know, what people say and what people really do is usually very different. Until people stop lying we can’t believe just words. Until celebrities prove their identity you must believe that you are really in contact with them. I guess, you know the difference between ‘I BELIEVE’ and ‘I KNOW’…Isn’t it better to know than just to believe, isn’t it better to have facts than just words? Of course it depends on what you want or what you need. If you are just bored then you don’t mind to communicate with posers. But if you wanna be a real friend with a celebrity then you will waste your time…

WHAT WOULD CELEBRITIES DO IF THEY WERE US?
That’s a very important question. We should ask this question celebrities. So then they finally realize how fans have big problems to be in contact with them and what they can do about it. Maybe we should ask an question why celebrities don’t prove themselves. Because can’t they or because don’t they want?

Famous guys must be really sick of tired to hear all the time if they are real or not being online. But on the other hand, they must understand why guys always ask them that question. If we search ‘Madonna’ on Facebook or Myspace we will find lots of profiles of her and lots of them are ‘official’ or ‘real’ What would celebrities do if they were us? Because Facebook, Myspace and other websites don’t offer an identity verification(who knows why?) then celebrities must find another solution to prove their identity. But why should they do it?
One thing is absolutely sure: all what we can do when it comes to a celebrity profiles is just to believe that those profile are real. We can’t say for sure if those profile are fake or not. But hope die last…

WHAT TO PROVE?
Your face, your location, your age and so on.

HOW CAN A CELEBRITY PROVE ITS IDENTITY?
1. A link from their official website. Not MySpace, Facebook, Bebo etc., but their official website. Example: www.westlife.com must provide a link, not www.myspace.com/westlife.
2. A real photo from the celebrity where we can see an URL of a website where is the photo.
3. A video of the celebrity speaking about an URL of a website where is the video.
HOW CAN WE TELL WHICH PROFILE IS REAL?
1. What language is used. For example an American actor who is 18years old will use different words than a poser from Russia.
2. When and how often is the person online? I guess, you know why…
3. Can you find a link to a celebrity profile you have found on its official site? If not, then it could be fake…
4. number of friends= Usually, the celebrity’s profile with the most friends is the official one. For example, if there are two profiles for Madonna, and one has 200,000 friends and the other has 48 friends, you can bet the one with 200,000 friends is hers.
5. personal photos=Imposters usually don’t have personal photos of the celebrity.
6. the profile’s design= how professionally the profile is designed. For example MySpace knows that celebrity profiles bring in a lot of users, so they work to make sure the celebrity’s profile is customized and professional. Imposter profiles will not look as slick.

BE FAIR
On the other hand, be fair:don’t you lie on your profile about your age, location or is your profile picture fake? Do you have real information about yourself on your profile(s)? Do you have pictures of yourself or did you just copied some from the Internet and then put them on your profiles? Do you have real information about your age or location? If not, why? If you lie on your profiles then don’t be hypocritical and don’t complain that there are lots of fake profiles…

Sometimes you can find a profile where a celebrity offers an msn or a skype contact. But do you know for sure that some of her fans really chatted with that celebrity? It could be just a trick to fool you…

No one asked me to proof my identity but be sure I’m always ready to do it. And what about you?

http://realcelebrityprofiles.com/
http://realcelebrityprofiles.com/blog/
http://valebrity.com/
http://www.twitle.com/
http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=142619681160

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Relationships and Age Difference

We can hear that age doesn’t matter when it comes to love and what’s really important is love because age is just a number. But really? When does an older partner become too old? When does an younger partner become too young? Does age really matter when it comes to love? Would you like to be the older person in a relationship? Would you like to be the younger person in a relationship? If so, why? If not, why? Don’t reply automatically. Think about it…

How Old Am I? What is my real age?
This is very important to know. You can think this is a stupid question. But really? Because your age is not about your date of birthday:

Mental Age
=Judgments are based on how a person thinks and acts. It is also known as a psychological age.

The most important factor to understand this is that although our bodies will show our age to a certain degree, age is most significant when it relates to maturity. Whether you find yourself to be the younger or the older person in a relationship, take into account whether your maturity levels match. You may find in life that a fifty year old and a thirty year old can be very similar in regard to their maturity level. This all depends on their life experiences, personal outlooks and goals. It seems that mental age is really important when it comes to a relationship. Maybe that’s why someone claims that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty…

Body Age
=Judgments are based on appearance. You look too young. You look too old… But judgments based on appearance won’t tell you your real age. Your real age is hidden inside you. How long you will live can find out if your judgment is not based on appereance but on a biological age.

Everyone has a chronological age as well as a current Body Age. A 42 year old can have a Body Age of 64 or 24, depending on how well they have looked after themselves. For example, if a 42 year old had neglected their health and fitness and their Body Age is 64, this means they are performing at the same level as the average 64 year old. On the flip side, a person may have worked out for many years and be chronologically 86, but has maintained the physical condition of a 29 year old.
Do you know why is body age important in a relationship? Just imagine you love jogging but your partner can’t do it because his/her body is too old or your partner love horseback riding but you can’t do it. And also don’t forget about sex…

So is there an ideal age gap? I recommend you to focus first on shared interests and values. And especially the way we think. I think that if we focused less on age and more on a person’s qualities, we would be much happier. If love is real, and the relationship is good, then age becomes secondary.

Personal Goals
Another aspect to consider is if the age difference will interfere with your own personal goals. Whether you want to concentrate on your career, have children or spend your free time traveling; ask yourself if your partner’s age difference agrees with your way of life. Discuss the future, not just the present situation. Some topics to consider are finances, children, retirement goals and career choices. You may find it very useful to choose a time to sit down and seriously talk about how the age difference may affect your lives one year, five years and possibly twenty years down the road.

Interests and Similiraties
Most people will undoubtedly get along with someone who has similar interests and hobbies. A night owl versus a morning bird will certainly not be in sync with each other. The same theory holds true for interests. While it is healthy to have some of your own personal interests, it is very helpful to the relationship that you share time together doing things that you both enjoy. Think about whether the age difference will affect activities done together; whether they be hiking, skiing or watching movies, these times spent together will keep the relationship strong.

Family, Friends and other Guys
Friends and Family of Age Gap RelationshipsThe largest stumbling-block in most age gap relationships comes when friends and family – and even strangers – are introduced into the mix.People may feel threatened or confused when witnessing a happy relationship between partners with a visible age gap, and some of them make comments that offend. Parents, in particular, may find it difficult to see their son or daughter with a romantic partner who is the same age as themselves – especially if the older partner is the woman, which really goes against what is expected. It may also be a challenge to enter each other’s social circles, especially if friends or colleagues are limited to people of one’s own age.It may be helpful to give friends and family time to get used to the idea of an age gap relationship. Since their interest is usually in ensuring their loved one’s happiness, seeing the couple together and happy will eventually win them over.Remember that although family and friends mean well, it is not their relationship! Only the couple themselves know what goes on within their relationship, and only they have to live with whatever they decide to create in their life together. Remember: in this case really doesn’t matter what people think about your relationship but if you are really happy in this relationship.

Most importantly, if you and your partner feel you are right for each other, age will not matter. We all begin our quest for love as young adults and we live with the intention of holding strong into our senior years. If two people are lucky enough people find each other, it usually will not matter at which point in life they do so. When it comes to love, age is just a number.
I Know vs I Think
Do you know the difference between I know something and I think I know something? You should because then you will be more successful and happier than when your judgments is based just on guessing. You must know something for sure, you must have facts, you must have proofs. Do you really know for sure this partner can be the right partner for you? Or do you just believe it? Do you have any proof that that guy is not ok with you? Do you know for sure your partner invest as much as you in your relationship? Or you just give…? Do you know what you will get from your relationship? And what about your partner? Don’t be egoistic… Do you KNOW what you can offer your partner and what your partner can offer you? Would you bet your life for it??? Don’t be a slave of your fantasies…

I Want vs I Need
What you want and what you need. This is very important… Usually what you want can’t make you happy as long as you want. This can do when you realize what you need. And again you must know what you really need, you must have proof…

A-listers with an age gap:
Madonna and Guy Ritchie – 10 yearsTom Cruise and Katie Holmes – 16 years
Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher – 15 years
Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones – 25

You can also take some tests of mental and body age+ EQ test to find out if you and your partner are compatible…

Google these words, dont hesitate to invest your time, energy or money in your happiness:
mental age, biological age(body age), real happiness, EQ

http://www.agelesslove.com/boards/index.php

Paparazzi – Good or bad?

Who is a paparazzo:
It is an Italian term used to refer to photojournalists who specialize in candid photography of celebrities, politicians, and other prominent people. It seems ok, isn’t it? So why does somebody think to be a paparazzo is the worst thing you can do in your life? They have a job to do which we all (for good or bad reasons) look at the results of. Celebrities use the paparazzi for publicity then cry invasion of privacy when they’re doing something they don’t want publicised. I think they have a hard time.

Truth, lies or both?
Paparazzi can give us true information about guys we want to know more. No matter if it’s Britney Spears or Sarah Palin. Paparazzi also can give us fictitious informaton. Who reads tabloid magazines knows the truth… Paparazzi are not just bad because they don’t shows us the whole truth but because they don’t respect someone’s privacy. But on the other hand, whose fault is it? Are there rules or laws that show paparazzi what they can do and what not?
Supply and Demand
If you don’t like or even hate paparazzi, then you also must hate guys who like or even love work of paparazzi. Average guys want dirt, they are not interested in jobs of famous people but in their privacy. Shame on them… Fortunately, I am not such guy and I guess, I am not alone…By the way, why guys are not interested in privacy of car mechanics or doctors? They can be sad because of it. No one cares about their privacy just about their job-if it’s good or not.

Could be famous guys famous without them?
That’s a really good question. Theoretically, they could be but because lots of people want to know everything about famous people, who’s dating whom, what they like and dislike and so on it will never happen. You know, where there is demand there is supply…On the other hand, paparazzi enhance a celebrities career, by keeping them in the public eye.
Do you wanna be famous too?
Then you must realize what is the famous about. You must know that your won’t have the same privacy as you had as a common guy.On the other hand, you can have big money and lots of guys will adore you. And you will have to know how to treat paparazzi. Don’t assault paparazzi or fans who bother you. Don’t act lilke an animal… If you wanna be famous then you must KNOW what are pros and cons of being famous. You must KNOW what you really want and need. You must KNOW and not just THINK…

Well, for me paparazzi are good and bad at the same time. Like famous people:they are bad and good…

Teaching

A couple of lines what I think about teaching…

As a teacher you must have these qualities:

1. New Information

People want to learn something that they don’t know. If you don’t know something that other people would love to know then you can’t teach.

2. Motivation

You must know how to motivate your students. They must want to learn what you know and not they have to learn…

3. Correction

As a teacher you must correct your students’ mistakes if you don’t want to do it then you are not a serious teacher.

If you want to teach yourself no matter if it is a foreign language, martial art or something else you must know this:

1. You must know where you can get information about subject you want to learn

2. You must know how to motivate yourself

3. You must know how to see your mistakes and how to correct them

Celebrity

Have you ever wanted to be a celebrity? Do you love or hate them? Do you really think they are normal? Do you think it is possible to find a celebrity on a dating website? Do you know how to date a celebrity? Do you know advantages and disadvantages of being a celebrity? If you have these questions you are at the right place. Because this article could answer your questions…

Real Character:

You must realize that there is really a big difference between what you think about  celebs and what is really true.  Yes, you can love them, you can adore them. That’s ok. I also like some celebs but not because I think there are the best personals in the world. Because I know the truth about them… I don’t like them because of their job, I don’t like them because I think they are great. How could I say that without knowing them? Realize this: People who are famous can’t be yourself. They must be extraordinary. Being famous is mostly about pretending something. Don’t you like it? But it is just true!

There is a big difference what people say and what people really do.

They can say: I love  my fans, I love helping people, money is not important to me etc. But is it really true or do they say that because we want to hear it…?

There is a big difference what people do and what they really think.

Yes, it is really true. For example celebrities can help people but why do they do it? Because they feel it in their heart or because they want to be more famous? If celebs say: I love my fans and I respect them are they really serious or do they do it because they want to be more famous? You know, the more they are famous the more money they will make…

Remeber this gold rule: no matter what you think or what you believe in but what is really true.

You can think that your favorite celeb is honest, kind, sincere but is it really true? How can you say that without knowing the celeb? You just don’t know  the celeb’s real character. What you know is what they say about themselves but they can lie of course… But why they are not always sincere? Because they protect their privacy and because they want to be more famous so they say what we, their fans want to hear…

Don’t be a slave of them!

You must realize that they are not better than you. Don’t let them play  any games with you. You must realize even if they have lots of money they don’t have any right to misuse you. You must love yourself as much as you love your favorite celeb. Celebs must deserve you. If they want you to love them or even to adore them they must deserve it. And don’t waste your time on them. Because your time is your life and they can’t pay for your life even if they could. But they don’t want… You must realize that celebs are not mostly interested in you! They just want your attention or your money. It is just bussiness nothing personal. It is just show bussiness…

They are not Gods, they are not better than we are and especially they are not above the law!

Celeb dating:

Would you date somebody who is famous if you could? And do you think it is perfect or bad to date somebody who is famous? And do you think it is really possible to find somebody who is famous on a dating website?

You can think dating somebody who is famous must be perfect. Maybe for you but what about the famous person. Why he/she should give you a chance to date his/her? You now, celebs can choose among lots of people who adore them.

You could find a dating profile on the net that was quite interesting… Wow, I know this person, she/he is a celeb! But do you really think the person  is really a celeb? You know, there is absolutely no problem to download lots of pics of a celeb and then to put the pics in your profile. Just have a look at social network websites: how many celebrities you can find there? Lots of! But it doesn’t mean those profile are genuine. That people can be just frauds= a person who is not who she/he pretends to be. The question is why these people pretends they are who they are not. For what reason? For money? Or because they wan to  be like their favorite celeb? Or they are just bored and it is fun for them to be contacted by people who think that they are famous… I don’t know and I don’t care. It is their problem. Because people are not interested in them… But again: is it really possiblly to find a celeb on a dating website? Of course it is. Nothing is impossible.

1. Celebs can pretend to be somebody else

They can use a fake picture or a fake name. They can lie about their age, location and much more…  You can find a dating profile on the net where you can see a pic of somebody who is famous but name, location, job etc are different than the famous people really have. And now what? Is the person really a celeb or is it just a fake?

2. They can be themselves

The celeb dating profile you have found is perfect. Pictures, the profession, location, age are correct… But are you really sure this person is really a celeb?

Remeber this rule:

“Fall in love with the truth and not with your fantasies”

This is my slogan and my lesson from me to you. Love at first sight doesn’t exist because if you think you fell in love with somebody who you saw a little time ago do you really think it is love? You fell in love with your fantasies that you have about that person, you love your fantasies and not the person. Because how can you love the person if you don’t know her/his at all. It is impossible… So how can you love a celeb who you don’t know at all? What you can say is: I love her/his body, I love what I could see in her/his movies that’s all what you can say. But is this emotion that you feel  in your heart real love or is it something else?

But the question is: are you really ready to love somebody who is famous?

Do you love her/his job or do you love the celeb?. Do you want to be with your favorite celeb or with it’s job? Do you really want  to get to know HER/HIS and not just her/his job? Do you really want to get to know her/his personality? Would you really date her/his if she/he was not famous? And  are you ready to live with somebody who is famous? Wouldn’t you mind if she/he was loved by lots of people. Wouldn’t you be jealousy?

I always care about personality, about character. And that’s why I don’t like many people in Hollywood even if I love their job…

Are you really ready to get to know the celeb? Are you reallly ready to get to know the celeb’s mind,  thoughts and emotions? Are you really ready to do everything for the celeb you love? Are you really ready to support your loved celeb no matter what it can be? Are you really ready to be with the celeb forevever? If not then you should realize what you really want. Do you want to love the celeb and to be loved by the celeb or do you just want something else? You must realize they are so much afraid to be misused…

Who can celebs date?

1. People who are as famous as they are.

2. People who are as rich as they are.

3. People who are not famous and rich

Where celebs can search their love?

1. Face to face

This is not a good news for you because your chance to meet your celeb face to face is not big. But she/he must be in a dating mood because if she/he is not then you can date her… And do you know how to make the celeb be in a dating mood?

2. On dating websites

It could be a great chance for you. But… The celeb can be contacted by lots of people. And what is very important: there are lots of scammers, lots of frauds. So are you patient and do you have time to find out if the celeb dating  profile you have found on the net is really a celeb? And realize this: if the celeb don’t give you proof she/he is really who she/he claims she is it doesn’t mean the person is fake… The celeb is just a little careful. But you must decide how long you are ready to wait for the proof. Because then you could wait forever…

Celeb Lifestyle:

Are you really ready for a celeb lifestyle? Do you really think their lifestyle is just perfect? Really?

Are you ready for plastic surgary? No? So forget about being a celeb. Because what you can see in movies is mostly a job of plastic surgeons… Are you ready to live among people who think absolutely differently? Are you ready to lose your privacy? Are you ready to sell yourself? Are you ready to be  a product and not a person? Are you ready to live somewhere where lots of people take drugs, drink alcohol, have lots of parties and waste lots of their money? Are you ready to change completely your life? If not then forget about being a celebrity…